I don't know sometimes, we all fool ourselves into believing we know what the right way to live is, me more than most. All I know is what works for me, that I have to make the best of my life without spoiling someone elses, to remain optimistic, be grateful for what I have and most importantly of all, to keep going, keep living each day, meeting every challenge. Perhaps, as Emerson believed, man is a god in ruins, having the potential to rebuild but facing such an enormous task the best we can hope for is to mend something of ourselves every now and again.